SPILLING THE TEA ON ALL MY THERAPISTS

  • Yayınlanma Tarihi:  4 ay önce
  • To all the therapists I've seen before. I've been going to therapy for nearly two years now and it's something I'll always prioritize. I'm so happy with the therapist I have now HOWEVER it took me a long time to find the right one. In this video I chat about all the therapists I've seen and explain what I didn't like and what I learned. Hopefully this video can help anyone who's searching for a therapist and encourages you to not give up. ------------------------------------------ 💎 Subscribe and become a Jem today: http://bit.ly/2iLayjY 💎 ------------------------------------------ ➫ Shop my clothing line Eggie: http://eggie.us ------------------------------------------ ➫ Instagram: http://instagram.com/imjennim ➫ Twitter: http://twitter.com/imjennim ➫ Facebook: http://facebook.com/imjennim ➫ Spotify: http://bit.ly/2rctq05 ➫ Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/jennimsnaps ------------------------------------------ ❐ MUSIC ❏ ➫ DJ Grumble's Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/1ElnUag ➫ DJ Grumble's Spotify: http://spoti.fi/2s5bRD7 ------------------------------------------ FTC: This video is NOT sponsored.
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  • Jenn Im
    Jenn Im 4 ay önce

    To all the therapists I've seen before... I wanted to sit down and chat about my whole journey on finding the right therapist for me. I would love to know your guys' therapy experiences in the comments below. n_n

  • Imane Chelioui
    Imane Chelioui 1 hafta önce

    Yes pls more videos on mental health

  • Alexa Staar
    Alexa Staar 1 hafta önce

    Please do more mental health videos!!!! Even though it's just you talking about ur experiences, I love hearing it because I find myself to relate too! I love u Jenn!!!!

  • monica green
    monica green 2 hafta önce

    한글자막작성자분 넘 감사해요🌷

  • TelleMW
    TelleMW 2 hafta önce

    How to know if you need to see a therapist? Feel like I’m suffering with deep past issues but idk if it’s a big enough deal to see one

  • Xin Marshall
    Xin Marshall 3 hafta önce

    Thank you so much for sharing this. This is the first video of yours that I've seen (after being linked by a friend), and I've just subscribed. You've inspired me to reflect on my own therapy journey.

  • Kerry Howard
    Kerry Howard 3 hafta önce

    I think the therapist who recommended ayahuasca went about it the wrong way, and I'm sorry she did that. You should never be pressured to partake in any substances involuntarily - drugs, alcohol, or even something as simple as the food you eat. There is something to be said however about certain psychoactive drugs' properties which have a certain effect of introspection and alteration of your world views. Most people who try it say the same thing - that they see the world, their viewpoints, and their connections with people in a different light. It literally forces your brain to make connections between sections of itself that have never spoken before, which often allows you to step back and take a hard look at some of your most ingrained beliefs. BUT using a drug for the purpose of solving a problem is almost never a good thing. You should ONLY partake in ANY substance with the full understanding of 1) what they are/how they work 2) the fact that they are recreational additions to your current life, and NOT solutions to your issues. With psychoactives especially - without the proper mindset and intentions you could easily have what is called a "bad trip", which can be terrifying and mentally scarring. Be safe out there kids, and educate yourselves always.

  • Milena Iwańska
    Milena Iwańska 1 ay önce

    Omg this video helped me so much, thank you! ❤

  • Marlot Westera
    Marlot Westera 1 ay önce

    I would love more content on mental health

  • Trisha Weilert
    Trisha Weilert 1 ay önce

    I’m a strong advocate of therapy! I went for two years in high school and it was so transformative & helpful. It’s amazing the magic that can happen with the right tools. I’m glad you didn’t give up and you found a match!

  • 행복하게_매트_

    I can totally relate to this 🤔😅😅

  • 전태형
    전태형 1 ay önce

    this is one of the best videos you've uploaded ㅠㅠ i almost cried when u said ' be gentle to everyone, especially YOU' 앞으로도 좋은 영상 기대할게요~~~ and i would be really happy to see more of these videos related to mental health!!! 화이팅 ♥

  • dogsrule17
    dogsrule17 1 ay önce

    I loved this video so much Jenn :) Thank you for sharing!!! Please share more mental health videos <3

  • Rue Rue
    Rue Rue 1 ay önce

    In general you are right we must not be quick to give premature answers there is a bible saying which goes “ everyone must be slow to speak and quick to listen” sometime you just want to show that to the therapists hahahha
    About your therapist advice to cut off your parents - that was awful but maybe she meant well. What I have learnt is that we only owe our parents love and respect. So if you want to help them please do it’s good and I don’t know if you believe in God -I believe in him and from the holy scriptures it says parents should be honoured. For some people taking care of them is their way to honour so I understand why you were upset it’s sweet because you actually appreciate all they have done for you. Adding to that. However don’t allow that care to make you stressed because it should be joyful to care for them just like the saying there is so much happiness in giving than receiving. In general it becomes an issue if say you feel you have to do this otherwise ... just an eg. I hope you remain strong and awesome n fabulous which you already are :). Well done reducing alcohol
    💕

  • Rue Rue
    Rue Rue 1 ay önce

    Whatyou said about considering distance regarding finding therapist is so true. Also yes it would have to be treated like a relationship because it is. To be honest your red flags part resonated with me. Sometimes you know this ain’t the right one but if you have a personally that gets too attached you might struggle to change despite awareness that you could do with better. So it’s good to watch out for the red flags like you said. I laughed when you said a tired calm and when you said I freaking cried me a river hahahha I did the same too in the only therapy I have ever gone to. Kkkkkk but it was short lived though the lady was compassionate. Also we spoke half and half and she offered so many solutions and I really liked her but I wish we didn’t have to stop cause I was changing home jobs etc so I had to move. And I let her know which made her feel I should be ready to find another since I will changing my home address.

  • Rue Rue
    Rue Rue 1 ay önce

    Jenna Im. I love you. I love korean. Watch way too many dramma of each. I find you inspiring your every video I take one or two things even the old videos about after school ten things you could do different or so. Also the one about your parents being abused in America. I love that. I’m Zimbabwean and I live in London. So I could relate. Thank you. This video too. Thank you. I have so much to say to you about this your lovely video I will try to come back and reply fully as I’m at work ❤️💞💕thanks for your saying be gentle with everyone and yourself especially yourself. So I repeat it to you too Jenn 😍💞❤️

  • Julia Liu
    Julia Liu 1 ay önce

    i've had a tough time finding the right therapist as well, i went to see a handful and the best one was one that I got referred to!

  • Julia Liu
    Julia Liu 1 ay önce

    would love to see more mental health videos!

  • Meredith Taylor
    Meredith Taylor 1 ay önce

    I love you so damn much - this pink look, this video - you're so helpful and inspiring. As I have struggled with mental health and have gone through therapy this was v relatable. Your content is amazing!! As are you!!

  • Tas B
    Tas B 1 ay önce

    I went to therapy in sixth form and it was so 💩 bc the therapist just couldn't understand my culture as well as said "you don't owe your family anything, go move out for uni" - and I got super influenced with this to the point it broke me down. Never again. I want to do therapy again but I'm just so put off 😅

  • Annyx
    Annyx 1 ay önce

    Omg ily so much, I have literally been watching you since 3 years ago and I think you had 800k then? But I have been trying to binge watch all your videos lately because now I graduated from Uni and I started watching you when I started Uni, during Uni I got so busy that I didn't even have time to watch anything LOL! Just wanted to say I am so happy to see you come SO FAR and opening up to us!! ILYSM <3

  • Kelina
    Kelina 2 ay önce

    This is such a great video and so informational, I very scared to start therapy so hearing you talk about it which it’s hard to find good videos on topics like this, you made it very easy thank you!

  • Abigail Delgado
    Abigail Delgado 2 ay önce

    Please make more videos like this!

  • Black Fire
    Black Fire 2 ay önce

    I want to go to therapy but I haven't yet. This video was so helpful and organized, I love your videos 💕

  • Mia Shaw
    Mia Shaw 2 ay önce

    this video was so helpful! i would love to see more content like this.

  • Maria Escobar
    Maria Escobar 2 ay önce

    I want mooreeee videos like this!!!😍😍😍

  • colojuli
    colojuli 2 ay önce

    Your current therapist reminds me of the one I had for 3 years. She never really gave me any straight up advice, which kind of drove me crazy at times, but she let me arrive to the conclusions by myself. She was great :)

  • CartDi
    CartDi 3 ay önce

    I don’t even know how to tell you how helpful this was. Thank you ♥️

  • Jessa Petersen-Perry

    So thankful for my therapist!

  • Evelyn Teodoro
    Evelyn Teodoro 3 ay önce

    Thank you so much Jenn

  • rosemdance
    rosemdance 3 ay önce

    I love this! Thank you very much for taking the time to open up about your therapy experiences. Even just getting the narrative out there that it takes time and to not give up is so important! ❤️

  • Vittoria Burioni
    Vittoria Burioni 3 ay önce

    7:38 that face :')

  • Karen Kwan
    Karen Kwan 3 ay önce

    this video is so helpful! I've been contemplating about going to therapy for a long time, and your advice makes looking for the right therapist a lot easier! Thank you :)

  • Sherry Chen
    Sherry Chen 3 ay önce

    your current therapist sounds exactly like my therapist right now!!!!!!!! omg I love this, thanks for sharing Jen!!

  • WiwyWish
    WiwyWish 3 ay önce

    I would love for you to share some ways to cope with psycological issues. Everyone has different experiences in therapy, and not everyone finds a solution, but if you have found some solutions for yourself, maybe they can help us who haven’t found one yet :)

  • Amanda
    Amanda 3 ay önce

    I've had the same qualms for seeing a therapist because of differences in culture. As an Asian person, we put so much pressure on ourselves to meet expectations as well as take care of our family. There is an obligation that we are raised to have to take care of our parents and family. I completely love that you shared this. Therapy is really an amazing thing. <3

  • Ana R.
    Ana R. 3 ay önce

    Hey Jenn! Absolutely love your travel & relationship videos, but this one on mental health and therapy feels really special. I was a psych student for 5 or 6 years and for most of that time, I had no idea that a lot of the mental health issues we discussed in class actually related to me. I only sought therapy once I was away from home and studying abroad. My first therapist was...very much not for me, but our schedules didn't line up so I was placed with a different one. She was absolutely fantastic, and so was the therapist I ended up seeing back in the U.S. (All of my therapists were white, but my last two were really good at letting me speak about my life without white-washing it or ignoring the cultural aspects._

    As a person of color, I think it's incredibly important that we hear other POC sharing their mental health journeys and therapy experiences. So often, it seems like people of color are just brought up with this "grin and bear it" attitude. But that doesn't mean we have to bear it alone. So thank you Jenn! <3 And I'm glad to hear you've made progress. I have too.

  • vampvivid
    vampvivid 3 ay önce

    I'm glad you made this video, Jen. It just shows not all therapist are great. Whenever I tell people about my experience with a therapist, they couldn't believe me. I felt so upset about that, just because they have a degree doesn't mean they're always going to be a good therapist. There are good lawyers, bad lawyers, good cops, bad cops, good doctors, bad doctors and some people are just blinded by the bad one. My therapist exposed my personal life to my school and even called the 911 saying I wrote a suicidal letter when I did not write anything to her. I just stopped seeing her because I felt uncomfortable with her. She decide to revenge on me by calling 911, getting the cops visit my mom, that was so uncalled for. I'm glad you found the right therapist, Jen!

  • Mer Mer
    Mer Mer 3 ay önce

    Thank you Jenn ! This video is really helpful ! I’m under pressure for a long time , maybe it’s the time for me to try the mental therapist too :) Thanks again !

  • Alex Melendez
    Alex Melendez 3 ay önce

    Pleeeease make more videos like this! I've always loved your channel and videos, and this made me feel so much better about having mental health issues. Not enough people talk about it, and it's so refreshing and helpful for my own experience when others open up.
    I'm mexican-american first generation, and so I can relate to owing your parents. I've had to leave a couple of wh1te therapists because they just didn't understand that sort of culture. I'm still trying to find someone, and this video gave me some hope. <3